If you are faced with manipulative behavior from your ex during your divorce, it is important to remember that you have options. You should never feel like you have to tolerate this type of behavior to resolve your case. Here’s what you can do and how to get the legal help you need.
Manipulative Divorce Tactics to Know
Be on the lookout for any sneaky or manipulative behavior from your spouse. Here are some common examples of manipulative behavior during a divorce:
Threatening to take custody of your kids. If you have children, your spouse may threaten to take them away from you if you don’t agree to their terms in the divorce. This can be a very effective way to manipulate and control you.
Hiding assets. Your spouse may try to withhold financial records from you to avoid paying as much child support and alimony. This can make it difficult for you to get a fair settlement.
Emotional manipulation. Your spouse may try to control or gaslight you during your divorce by playing mind games. For example, they may tell you that you’re imagining things or that you’re being paranoid.
What You Can Do If Your Spouse Is Manipulating You
If your spouse is manipulating you during your divorce, there are several things you can do to protect yourself. First, stay calm and level-headed. Don’t let your emotions get the best of you and don’t allow yourself to be drawn into arguments with your spouse.
It’s also important that you document everything. Keep track of all correspondence between yourself and your spouse so you have proof to back up your claims if your spouse tries to manipulate or gaslight you.
When to Take Action & Get Legal Assistance
If your spouse is being manipulative, it’s important to take action. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or if your spouse is using threatening or violent behavior, reach out for help from a qualified family law attorney. Your lawyer can help you navigate getting a divorce from a manipulative spouse and will work with you to come up with a plan tailored to your specific situation. Call Shazia Sparkman at Sparkman Law Firm today by dialing 813-374-2000. Our team is available now to book your appointment via phone, or fill out our quick contact form and we will get right back to you.
